We all care about our appearances. Caring about appearances is good for people skills. Caring about appearances is bad for self reflection. If you look in the mirror and hate the way you look, you may reject what you see.

You may reject your mistakes. You may reject appearing weak. You may reject your shameful acts. You may reject the hard truths about yourself.

To run away from the hard truths of yourself is to remain caged in life. But to engage the hard truths can TOO HARSH. I don’t want people to deal with HARSHNESS. I want engagement of our hard truths to be soft, easy, and lighthearted. This is the culture we should cultivate.